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Are you a victim of financial abuse in your marriage?

Posted By:
July 8, 2019


Are you a victim of financial abuse in
your marriage?

With spousal abuse, you likely think of physical striking, intimidation and spouses who blame their bruises on clumsiness. Spousal abuse has another layer: financial abuse.

Married couples in California can learn more about whether they are victims of this rarely talked about form of abuse from the National Network to End Domestic Violence. Knowing the many forms that abuse takes is vital for your peace of mind.

At its core, financial abuse is about controlling and/or limiting a person’s access to funds, be they personal funds or marital funds. Just like physical and verbal abuse, financial abuse has roots in power and control. Taking it one step further, victims of financial abuse often feel like they do not have the financial means to leave the harmful relationship or gain financial peace of mind after escaping the relationship.

So, what forms do financial abuse take? Your abusive spouse may harass you at work, leading to your termination or compromised advancement opportunities, or control how you spend money. Purposefully running up debt on joint accounts is another form of financial abuse, as is giving you an “allowance” of your earned money. This form of abuse can be either overt or covert.

Financial abuse leads to financial insecurity. Victims have difficulty finding alternate housing away from the abusive spouse without proper access to finances. Even if a person successfully escapes an abusive relationship, she or he may have to come back due to fears of homelessness.

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